tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494061117273761715.post5512135000885747099..comments2023-10-21T06:28:35.259-05:00Comments on Encourage 365: One Day at a Time: Day 9: "A Gentle Answer..."Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494061117273761715.post-84456090762608098282011-06-27T19:37:07.164-05:002011-06-27T19:37:07.164-05:00No one can argue with themselves... SO true! I lo...No one can argue with themselves... SO true! I love that your husband told you he wouldn't fight. Mine doesn't a lot... like I said, it annoyed me at first lol. <br /><br />Thanks so much for taking the time to leave replies ladies :)Kellyhttp://www.365daysofbiblicalencouragement.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494061117273761715.post-72630172593016663442011-06-27T16:45:11.040-05:002011-06-27T16:45:11.040-05:00Before my husband and I got married he told me he ...Before my husband and I got married he told me he does not argue I thought he was kidding, well needless to say I found out he was right. I can be upset about something and he will not argue with me at all. He will even tell me baby, when you calm down and not emotional we will talk later. And he will walk away or continue doing what he was doing. Sometimes he will change the conversation and start asking me something to get my mind off of it. No one can argue by themselves..and now that we been married for some time now I am learning not to argue. When I get upset instead of taking it out on him I find other ways to get all that energy out. Either going to the gym, doing a project within the house, cleaning or turn my music on and get dancing. <br /><br />Jesus got angry but never sin and that is what we must learn to do..Desirayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11055830822084589784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494061117273761715.post-45390315215762487382011-06-27T13:00:11.238-05:002011-06-27T13:00:11.238-05:00I agree! I always try to use a calm voice when I a...I agree! I always try to use a calm voice when I am angry. It calms me and those around me. People always think that I am even-tempered and wise-LOL! It's the LORD-NOT ME! When in a pressing situation, I pray silently for guidance in my speech, thoughts and actions. I liked this post! Blessings!Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11805821839864164676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1494061117273761715.post-14579236314533624692011-06-27T12:10:11.282-05:002011-06-27T12:10:11.282-05:00Hi Kelly. I agree with you. Whenever I get into ...Hi Kelly. I agree with you. Whenever I get into a confrontation with my husband, I defend, defend, defend, and he just ignores me and I get louder and louder...But those times when I have said my piece and walked away and waited, God has used that and my hubby has come back to me, (later!!!), and it gets sorted out. Its definitely a waiting and controlling your tongue game which I normally lose. You'd think I'd learn. Well, I keep trying.<br />God bless and thanks for the advice.<br />TracyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com